Saturday, October 22, 2016

The War After Veterans Come Home

The transition for veterans into civilian life is a lot harder than we could imagine. First, when they return from being over seas it is hard for them to see their families. Veterans often feel disconnected from their loved ones. They tend to hide their true feelings and can not get themselves to open up. Both of my older brothers served in the army so I got to experience this first hand. It was hard to see someone I loved in emotional pain, and them not being able to explain it.  After veterans are honorably discharged from the military they now have the struggle to find another job, and develop a career.  The problem with this is that they can not usually use their military training. In order for them to get a good job they need to go to college, but most veterans can not afford college. It is also hard to apply, and receive the military benefits to have the government pay for their education.

In result of these struggles some veterans end up committing suicide. Veterans commit suicide because they can not cope with PTSD. They don’t get the help they need to be okay emotionally. Also many veterans are addicted to drugs like prescription, or over the counter painkillers, marijuana, and alcohol. For the first three years my older brother was out of the army he couldn’t function properly without being high. He couldn’t focus, and had a hard time going out in public places. These are real life hard struggles for today's veterans. Sadly many people don’t realize this, and sadly the government isn’t doing enough to ensure the wellbeing of our soldiers. If you would like to read more here are two articles about veterans,  Latest Estimate of Veteran Suicide at 20 Per Day  and We Aren’t Doing Enough to Help Veterans Transition to Civilian Life .

Sunday, October 16, 2016

Encouragement

Praising your child and giving them positive reinforcement is the natural thing to do. As a parent no one wants to give their child bad news, or put them down in a negative way. We are always trying to encourage our kids to do their best. Researchers have been looking at how this reinforcement is actually affecting our children. In the article How Not to Talk to Your Kids (Links to an external site.) and the video  “The Myth of Praise.” (Links to an external site.) they explain the effects of praises on our children, and actually conduct an experiment to prove the point.
Research shows that continually praising our children and telling them they are smart actually drives them to be less determined, and they will not want to do things they are not instantly good at. This does not however mean that we should discourage our kids.  The best way to help our children succeed is to encourage them but not to over do it. To also develop them in a way to where they work hard for the things they earn. Instead of just telling them they are smart you should say that they must have worked really hard to accomplish what they did. This not only is positive but it helps them do better with harder tasks. 
Ultimately creating stronger individuals with more motive to be able to accomplish harder tasks and pursue things that do  not come easily to them.  

Personality Impact on Writing

As a student writer it is good to be aware of how your learning style and personality impact your writing process.  After completing The Keirsey Temperament Test (Links to an external site.) I learned that my personality type is ENFP. Extravert, iNtuition, Feeling, and Perceiving. I then looked through the information on Your Personality Type and Writing (Links to an external site.) and How Your Personality Type May Affect Your Writing (Links to an external site.) to gain some knowledge about myself.
As an Extravert I benefit from others. Often bouncing off their ideas and always wanting to receive another's comments before revising. Extraverts also tend to write outlines and want immediate results. I tend to do all of these things. For example on my last blog I was with four of my friends, one of which is in my English class. I was constantly asking all of them for advice and when I was finished I had my friend Tristen read through it and revise it before submitting it.
With the next part of my personality being iNtuition I need assignments that have general instructions allowing me to be original. I tend to write quickly allowing ideas to suggest the next and I typically generalize with the lack of support. I consistently see myself doing this. I typically see everything together and don’t usually break it down in specific examples, like I’m doing now.
Feeling is the third part of my personality which I think I relate to the most. With this I am motivated by assignments that relate to me personally or connect people together. I am always wanting my topic to be interesting and the focus to be on the audience directly. With this I tend to overdo personal insight, and need further clarification. One good example on how I could better this in my writing is by citing both the pros and cons of the argument.
The last type of my personality is Perceiving. With this I tend to select a broad topic without limiting it. Always just finding one more article or book to read. This makes first drafts way too long and revising is usually spent cutting out the unessential. Usually when I find myself doing this it is frustrating. To try and avoid this I am going to start with a more specific topic, that way I don’t have too much information and I can focus on more specific details.

In conclusion to this I feel like taking The Keirsey Temperament Test has helped me better understand who I am as a person and a writer. With the examples I was given I am now able to understand why I write the way I do and how to be more successful and perform better in my writing.